After six rivetting years, the series finale of Sons of Anarchy is airing tonight (December 9th) on FX. Oh, Jax...what will our Tuesday nights be like without you? Seeing as we are totally not ready to let go of mega-hot star Charlie Hunnam just yet, we sat down with the actor to get some juicy details about his ideal date, how he really felt about almost being in the 50 Shades of Grey movie, and more. Oh, and, um, did we mention there may be a topless photo of him ahead?

If I want to do something really lovely for my girl, I'll surprise her with a couple of days in Palm Springs. We order room service and have massages, sit in the sun, and drink a bunch of booze—just totally disconnect. There's an energy and a pace to that place that feels otherworldly, like everything slows down.

Yes. That's the person you're going to spend the vast majority of your time with, and I feel like all healthy, fun relationships—particularly long-term—are based on a foundation of friendship. All the lust and mystery dissipates after a while, and what's left is the friendship.

Genuinely, when all of that 50 Shades [of Grey] stuff went down. [Editor's note: He accepted the role of Christian Grey but pulled out of the film two months later.] That really bothered me. I was going against everything I believed I was, and...I've just never been in a situation like that, where I'd bitten off more than I could chew. I was scared that it was going to make me feel really bad about myself. I was scared that there would be some negative repercussions for me.

My social anxiety—I hate going to parties, I hate small talk, and I hate socializing with people I don't know. I feel horribly awkward in those situations and get really nervous. If I have to go to a party, my whole day is ruined worrying about it.

F--k, you're getting old, son. But you still look good. [Laughs]

For more intimate details about Charlie Hunnam, pick up the December 2014 issue of Women's Health (and the December 2014 issue of Men's Health), on newsstands now!