What's the quickest (nonphysical) way to turn a guy on? -Wendy, St. Paul, MN
Our on switch is pretty easy to flip, actually. Just smile and laugh often, steal a seductive bite of our food, open up to us about a fantasy. . .all of those work.
But the fastest way is to let us in on a dirty secret. For instance, if you don sexy lingerie underneath your work clothes just for your guy, he'll be buzzing with primed sexual energy. Make a show of putting it on in front of him in the morning, or send him a text to tell him you're wearing it while he's sitting at dinner with friends.
Want to fire him up even more? Remind him of a recent sexual experience the two of you sharedÃ¢â‚¬”something out-of-the-ordinary hot. Now whisper in his ear that you can't wait to do it again. As long as it's a conversation between just the two of you, his brain will already be in foreplay mode.