By June 2011, the 5'4" Susan had lost over 40 pounds and weighed in at less than 100. She found excuses not to join her family at the dinner table, focusing instead on privately planning out every morsel that went into her mouth. Her husband grew frantic until, finally, Susan went to a doctor, who was at a loss. He ruled out a series of gastrointestinal conditions, then said, "And you're too old for anorexia."
Susan was 43.
Eating disorders leaped into the national conscience in the 1970s and '80s, when the number of diagnosed cases exploded. The patients were adolescent girls, many of whom became anorexic or bulimic as a means of controlling their bodiesÃ¢â‚¬”and, by extension, their livesÃ¢â‚¬”as they made their way through puberty. So many girls fell victim that eating disorders were branded a teenage disease. (And experts continue to see a troubling number of cases among teen girls, says Ovidio Bermudez, M.D., board member of the National Eating Disorders Association.)
Yet lately doctors have noticed a disturbing spike among a different group: women in their late twenties, thirties, and forties. At the Renfrew Center's 11 treatment locations, the number of patients over age 35 has skyrocketed 42 percent in the past decade. Likewise, a couple of years ago at the Eating Recovery Center in Denver, an estimated 10 percent of patients were over age 25; today, a whopping 46 percent are over 30. And when it opened in 2003, the University of North Carolina's Eating Disorders Program was designed for adolescentsÃ¢â‚¬”now half of its patients are over 30 years old.
Just like their younger counterparts, adult eating disorders deliver a mind-body punch that kills more people than any other mental illness. Patients of all ages can suffer impaired brain function, infertility, dental decay, or even kidney failure or cardiac arrest. But while the teen and adult diseases share physical symptoms, and both can be tied to deep psychological roots, their catalysts are quite different, says psychotherapist Jessica LeRoy, of the Center for the Psychology of Women in Los Angeles. "As women get older and their lives evolve, so do their stressors and triggers," she says. These can nudge the door open for an eating disorder. But research on the adult-onset versions is lackingÃ¢â‚¬”and without sufficient tools and awareness, women like Susan are being misdiagnosed.
When her physician failed to pinpoint a cause, Susan and her husband sought several more opinions about her ever-shrinking size. The other doctors also ignored the possibility of an eating disorder, though one did suggest she seek psychiatric care. Susan went back home, where she lived in fear and confusion, her health rapidly deteriorating. Finally, a friend whose teenage daughter was anorexic recognized her symptoms and urged the family to consult an eating disorder specialist. After two years of starving herself, Susan checked into a clinic, where she needed to be hooked up to a feeding tube to survive.
For decades, the eating disorder lexicon had two main entries: anorexia and bulimia. But modern research reveals that these fall woefully short of encompassing the many facets of disordered eating. In the early '90s, the American Psychiatric Association introduced a new diagnostic category: eating disorders not otherwise specified (EDNOS). A catch-all label that includes dozens of subdiagnoses, EDNOS applies to patients who don't meet the exact criteria for anorexia or bulimia but still have very troubled relationships with food or distorted body images. Today, EDNOS diagnoses significantly outnumber anorexia and bulimia cases. "The atypical has become the typical," says Ovidio Bermudez, M.D. (Learn more about atypical eating disorders.)
On any given day, nearly 40 percent of American women are on a diet. The weight-worry gun is loaded early: By the time they reach age 10, 80 percent of girls fret that they're fat. Their main "thinspiration," according to experts: the ultra-slim starlets glorified in popular culture.
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It seems unlikely, though, that women who make it into adulthood with healthy eating habits would suddenly become swayed by such images. "Grown women used to be allowed to have curves," says LeRoy. "As they got older, their bodies were supposed to change, especially after having kids." But times have changed. The emergence of the MILF meme has spawned a novel form of pressure for an older age-group. And though LeRoy point outs that appearing svelte post-pregnancy isn't a bad thing, "the problem is when mothers try to turn back the clock and look like they're 18 by starving themselves."
Of course, celeb scapegoats are not the only cultural influence at play. Ironically, a growing national impetus on super-healthy living might be fueling some adult eating disorders, says Emmett Bishop, M.D., director of adult services at the Eating Recovery Center in Denver. While the message itself (smart food choices, reduced portion sizes, ample exercise) is justifiedÃ¢â‚¬”and necessary in fighting America's obesity epidemicÃ¢â‚¬”"some women who are prone to eating disorders might take that message and run too far with it," says Bishop, using it to validate food restriction or as an excuse not to eat at all.
Particularly at risk are women with extreme personalities (i.e., those who lean toward all-or-nothing behavior), says eating disorder nutritionist Sondra Kronberg, R.D., director of the Eating Disorder Treatment Collaborative in New York. "When a woman like this hears that red meat has a higher fat content, she might really hear 'All meat is bad and loaded with fat; I can't eat it,' " she explains. And cutting out entire food groups can snowball into a full-fledged disorder.
Contributing to these catalysts is the growing fervor over food sensitivities and allergies, says Kronberg. What starts out as necessary restrictionÃ¢â‚¬”say, nixing wheat due to a gluten allergyÃ¢â‚¬”could ignite larger restrictive-eating behavior, leading to a seriously dialed-down diet that excludes critical nutrients.
But experts also note that adult eating disorders aren't all driven by the need to look young or eat extra healthfully. Restriction or purging can also be outward manifestations of much deeper emotional turmoil, says Cheryl Kerrigan, a recovered adult anorexic and author of Telling ED No! "For some women, it's not about the food," she says. "It's about the feelings."
Katy was 26 the first time she stuck a finger down her throat. A Detroit native, she'd grown up happy and with healthy eating habits. But as she climbed the proverbial ladder at her public relations firm, her stress level also rose (frustratingly, her salary stayed on the bottom rung). One day, after dinner with her husband, Katy slipped into the bathroom. "It was like I had pressure inside me that I needed to release," she says. "Afterward, I felt much better." She flushed the toilet and went downstairs to watch TV.
Before long, Katy was purging up to eight times a day. At work, she'd vomit, wash up, and return to her desk without anyone noticing. "I was like a closet smoker," she says. Unlike many bulimia patients, Katy wasn't trying to erase calories or shed dress sizes; she rarely ever binged and throughout her sickness she remained a size 14. Rather, she came to feel that throwing up was evidence that she ran her own life.
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The desire for control is common among adult eating disorder patients, says Kronberg. Women are loaded with more responsibilities, such as paying the mortgage or caring for aging parents. They're also navigating big life transitionsÃ¢â‚¬”career changes, marriage, pregnancies, divorceÃ¢â‚¬”that can leave even a steady person feeling off-kilter.
"As early as age 30, many women hit a point at which they feel there are certain things they should have accomplished," says Kronberg. "They evaluate their lives, and if they see a void, they look for something that will make them feel good." In essence, a perceived lack of success can morph into a feeling of failure and become an eating disorder catalyst. But emerging research shows that yet another factor could turn an innocent desire for self-improvement into an unstoppable compulsion.
If two women with the same background have similar careers and diets, why might just one develop an eating disorder? Scientists now believe that some people carry an inherited vulnerability and that the illness can run in families.
The developing picture is complex: One specific gene does not spawn the disease. Inherited eating issues are likely due to a combination of genetic factors, ones that may skip a generation, lie dormant for decades, or never become active at all, says Sari Shepphird, Ph.D., author of 100 Questions and Answers About Anorexia Nervosa.
What experts do know is that "something has to come in from the outside to turn the eating disorder on," says psychologist and genetic researcher Craig Johnson, Ph.D., former president of the National Eating Disorders Association. Dieting and exercise are often the initial switches. Whenever any woman does either, she's actually changing her brain's neurochemistry. (For most people, this is necessary to create new healthy habits.) To wit, studies show that women with anorexia or bulimia have abnormal levels of several neurotransmitters, chemicals that affect anxiety and appetite. It's possible that something deep in their DNA was triggered to mess with the stuff.
Currently, there's no genetic test for an eating disorder, but just because your mom or sister struggles with food doesn't mean you're doomed to follow suit. Instead, women with a family history should be cautious about throwing themselves into hard-core diets or workout regimens, especially if they also have anorexia-related behavioral traits such as perfectionism or anxiety, or bulimia-related traits like impulsivity and restlessness.
The encouraging news is that adult women with late-onset eating disorders often have an easier time healing than adolescents do. About 50 percent of patients will fully recover, says Shepphird, likely because many women over 30 have the maturity needed to recognize that they need help. Most seek treatment because they want to get betterÃ¢â‚¬”as opposed to teens, who are usually pushed into therapy by their parents or doctors, says Johnson. (Take Katy's case: She knew that purging was dangerous. After tearfully confessing to her husband, she entered counseling.)
In the past, however, older women have felt out of place in treatment programs geared toward teenagers, says Laurie Glass, a recovered adult anorexic and the author of Journey to Freedom from Eating Disorders. Glass fell ill in 2003 when she was 32 but resisted entering a recovery center because of her age. "The guilt and the shame were overwhelming. I thought, I'm an adult, I should know better," she says. Instead, she sought out a dietitian for counseling.
Of course, had she become sick in 2012, Glass would likely have found plenty of patients her age at eating disorder treatment centers all around the country. As the larger medical community slowly becomes aware that eating issues don't disappear with adolescence, grown women have a better chance of being properly diagnosed. Still, says Johnson, if you suspect you have a problem, seek out an eating disorder specialist. That's what Susan wishes she had done, back when she couldn't bring herself to eat. Now in intensive treatment, she's learning that the best way to shrink her anxieties is to deal with her emotions and rebuild a strong, healthy body.
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