As soon as we start feeling tired we go grab a cup of coffee or other caffeinated drink to stay fresh and awake. But if you ...
Follow your bliss...and his.
"Take interest in what your partner is involved in, and continue to do things you like, so you'll stay interesting to each other," says Barbara Prescott, Ph.D., coauthor of My Heart Got Married and I Didn't Know It.
Accept that he is not perfect and never will be.
"Many marital problems simply have no solution," says Susan Page, author of Why Talking Is Not Enough: 8 Loving Actions That Will Transform Your Marriage. "Give up harping about the small issues and look for ways you can adapt, accept, and learn to live with what annoys you."