Think of the things you might have learned about BDSM from Fifty Shades of Grey. OK, now forget pretty much all of that. While the books and movies got a few things right, there's a lot more to the multifaceted world of BDSM that people should know (and try out, if they're interested!).
BDSM is an umbrella term comprising the words describing the erotic practices of Bondage and Discipline (B and D), Domination and Submission (D and S), and Sadism and Masochism (S and M). Carvaka Sex Toys - creators of the informational and ultraclassy Butt Plugs 101 video - just released another instructional video that breaks down the basics of BDSM. Here's what anyone interested in delving into the kinky world should know.
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And one of the most common questions: why do people enjoy bondage? Well, it's pretty simple. It's fun!
BDSM can be exciting and can even allow participants to feel like they are experiencing a new world. Many subs enjoy the feeling of security they get from being controlled, and oftentimes doms enjoy the feeling of power that comes along with being the one in control. BDSM may not be for everyone, but for many, it's the perfect way to explore their sexuality and add excitement to their sex lives and relationships.
Watch the full video for even more helpful information, and check out a more extensive guide on Carvaka's site.