I want to sext the guy I'm dating. What's my first move?Ã¢â‚¬”Jillian, Twin Falls, ID
Start by baiting him with a suggestive text, like "I want you." If he doesn't reply or comes back with "Thanks, babeÃ¢â‚¬”you're sweet," he's probably preoccupied and it's not the right time for sexting. But if he's interested, let things heat up naturally. He just might ask you to send a photo, at which point you can give him a (neck-down) sight he won't forget. Just one rule: If your boss could recognize you in the picture, it's definitely not worth sending.
Is it weird to send a guy flowers to let him know I'm thinking about him?Ã¢â‚¬”Jennifer, Oxford, ME
Yes, it's weird. Unless the guy has expressed a genuine interest in them (hey, there are some tulip-loving gents out there, I'm sure!), you'll just confuse him. My advice: Think of something unique and personalÃ¢â‚¬”if he likes to fish, say, pick up a new tackle box for him. If you're set on sending him something, you'll find no shortage of guy-friendly options, like the Loveless Cafe Bacon Sampler ($40, lovelesscafe.com) or a three-month membership to the Beer of the Month Club ($39 per month, beermonthclub.com).