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I'm sleeping with a guy who is vocal about his fantasies, but when we get into bed, he never follows through. What gives?Ã¢â‚¬”Tori, Anchorage, AK
Since he has already opened up about his kinky thoughts, he's definitely game to experiment. Tell him that you're eager to try, and be specific about when. As he's about to walk out the door in the morning, say, "You still want to try that idea you had about me being your misbehaving assistant? Let's get into character tonight." Or text him during the day. If he still seems hesitant once the moment heats up, take the lead in bed. Who knowsÃ¢â‚¬”maybe a little dominance is actually part of his fantasy. It doesn't hurt to try, right?
Is it better to be overdressed or underdressed for a date?Ã¢â‚¬”Sarah, Allenstown, NH
Your clothing should represent your personality, not your ability to adhere to the dress code of where you're meeting a guy. For instance, I went out with a woman who wore simple black dresses everywhere she went. Did she sometimes look out of place? Maybe, but I found it sexy, because her style was as orderly and uncomplicated as she was. So if you're a free spirit, wear a long skirt and breezy blouse. The casual type? Stick to your jeans and T-shirt. As long as you're not egregiously flouting the dress code, your date will be focused on getting to know you, not on how you approach formality.