8 Ways You Turn Guys On Without Even Trying

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This article was written by James Michael Sama and provided by our partners at YourTango.

Whether you just started dating a new guy or you're in a committed relationship with him, there are small things you might do on the regular that the special dude in your life secretly loves. Cue the awwwws.

Though it might sound sappy, there are countless habits, rituals, and quirks that guys like me are particularly fond of. How to turn a guy on is easy if you follow my top eight ways here:

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Laying Your Head on His Chest

When lying on the couch watching TV or lying in bed after a long day, it's one of the best feelings when a woman lays her head on your chest and puts her arm over you. As men, we enjoy feeling as though we are being protective, and this signifies that she feels safe with us.

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Texting Him First

There's a lot of pressure on guys to always initiate conversation. Sometimes, he doesn't know if he's being too pushy or texting too much. So he might overthink it and not text you at all, which could leave you wondering.

Guys like to feel affection, too, though, and if he's really into you, he'll be thinking about you. Sending him a quick text will brighten his day and spark a good conversation.

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Telling Him You Appreciate Him

Some people are more affectionate than others, and there's nothing wrong with that. Just remember, if a man puts a lot of effort into your relationship (as he should), he will never complain about hearing how much you appreciate him.

While your actions also convey how thankful you are for him, some guys need a more direct approach. It will make him feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

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Playing with His Hair While He's Driving

I didn't realize how great this one was until my girlfriend randomly did it one day. When you're riding shotgun and you reach over and scratch the back of his head for a while, he turns into a pile of mush.

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Bragging About Him on Facebook

Though some people go overboard with this—like, way overboard—when your guy does something nice for you and you share it with your friends, it shows him that you want to share your appreciation and love for him with the world.

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Really Listening

Women know better than anyone that listening isn't just a passive activity. It's an action—and it takes effort. When you sit down, keep his eye contact, and are genuinely engaged in a conversation about something important to him, it shows him you care (even if he already knows you do).

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Texting Him When You're Out with Your Friends

When you text him every once in a while during the course of the night just to say hey, it makes him feel good to know that you're still thinking about him when you're out.

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Being Affectionate

You don't have to jump on him in public (though, feel free to do so), but holding his hand while you're walking, hugging him in line at the grocery store, or hooking your arm into his as you walk into a party makes him feel close to you.

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