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11 months ago
10 Ways To Let Him Know Just How Much You Love Him

Let's admit it, when a man is in love, he does a lot to make sure that his woman knows it, and feels it. From little things like sending a "Good morning, beautiful" message to more meaningful things like confiding in you, your man will not shy away from making you feel like the centre of his world. But, women are conditioned to be loved, and not so much to return that gesture. It's time to break that cycle of letting the man pamper you, and pamper the love of your life a little bit by making sure that HE, too, feels loved. Here's how you can do it.

1. Call him... the old fashioned way

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No, texting or tagging him in a meme is not the same. When you think of him, pick up the phone, and call him. Even if you may not have anything to say, let him know that you just wanted to hear his voice, and say hello!

2. Send him a picture

Use technology to let your man know that you are thinking of him, even if you may have seen him just a few hours ago. Send him a picture to remind him of how lucky he is to have you!

3. Give him space

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We all roll our eyes at men and their need for space, but don't you think it's kinda cool that he values his me-time so much? Instead of complaining about it, maybe let him have his space, and take some inspiration and learn to value your own solo time?

4. Be nice to his friends

No, you don't have to make yourself a part of his boy gang, or become BFFs with his female friends. But, just be nice to them: hang out with them every once in a while, and keep it light and fun. You getting along with his friends is a huge compliment to him!

5. Bond with his family

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You don't, and shouldn't, have to be someone you're not just to get in his family’s good books. But, making an effort to bond with them is another thing that will make him feel cared for. Look at it this way: wouldn't you absolutely love it if he made an effort to bond with your family? After all, it is something you do for each other.

6. Tell him when he fucks up

Men appreciate honesty more than we'd like to give them credit for. A man who can't take your criticism because it hurts his ego is looking for a flatterer, not a partner. For all other men, having a partner means someone with whom they can cultivate an honest relationship, and that involves telling him when he fucks up.

7. But, forgive easily  

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Bear in mind that being honest about each other's flaws does not translate to holding grudges. Let him know when and how he fucked up, maybe suggest what he can do to make amends, and once he has done that, move on. Learn to forgive easily, not only because it will make him feel good, but also because it is key to a lasting relationship (More about this, on our website, here).

8. Support his endeavours

Support him, even if you may not fully believe in his endeavours. Support him, because that is what partners do - you are team players. Support him, because that is what you would expect of him. Support him, because you are his person, and he, yours.

9. Be patient with him

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Understand that men are not as emotionally well-equipped as women are, and sometimes, they take more time with relationships than you would expect. It's okay. Give him time, as long as there is a foundation of mutual love and respect.

10. Strive to live your own life, and make yourself better... for YOUR sake, and not his!

The most loving thing you can do for a man is to have your own life! You want to tell him that you don't need him, but want him in your life, and the best way to communicate that is by making yourself emotionally, socially and financially independent. When you do this, he becomes a source of joy in your life, rather than someone you need in order to make your life good. 

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