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10 Sex-Ed Lessons We Should've Learnt At School, But Learnt From Watching Porn

We know that pornography is not always representative of IRL sex, and bodies. Women aren't the hairless minxes that porn stars are. We don't have ginormous boobs (because, hello, our babies are real!). Our stomachs sag when we turn on all fours for doggy style. And, well, we sometimes queef and fart while doing the nasty. That said, there is a lot women can learn from watching porn, and no, we don't just mean weird sex positions! Here are 10 sex-ed lessons we should have gotten in school, but instead can learn from porn:  

1. No sex without foreplay

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Nobody jumps straight to the business in porn. There is always foreplay, and like the sacred Kamasutra teaches us, foreplay begins well before the clothes come off!   

2. There's more to sex than missionary

Doggy style, reverse cow girl, table top, lotus, against the wall, in the shower, standing up... with so many ways to have sex, why would you want to spend your entire sex life on your back?

3. Moaning is good!

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Be unapologetic and loud! Moaning is a perfect combination of expressing your pleasure, and reassuring your partner. There's no such thing as "too noisy" in bed!

4. Oral sex is important

Summer of '69 will always be your best summer ever!  

5. You must be adequately wet for penetration

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Men in porn take the time to turn their women on. They don't just shove their tools up. IRL, that happens all too often. No, ladies, 'porn is not IRL' is no excuse. You need to be adequately turned on to have sex!

6. Don't be afraid to explore your kinks and fantasies

Explore your own kinks and fantasies by watching different kinds of porn. What gets you going? What do you enjoy the most? What do you want to emulate? Or, maybe just try once? What would you never do? What puts you off? Watching porn is a safe way of exploring your inclinations before you put them to test.  

7. Everyone likes different things in bed

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This is why there are different categories of porn.

8. You CAN get cum in your eye. It's okay. It happens.

It happens in porn. It happens in IRL. Just wipe your eye, and rinse it off. No need to panic.

9. Dicks come in different shapes and sizes, and some of them are rather pretty!

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We are told that only the female body is aesthetic. If you truly believe that, please watch some gay porn tonight!

10. Female orgasms are a real thing. Make it happen!

How often do you see anticlimactic endings for women in porn? They orgasm. Sometimes, they even squirt. Now, you may or may not squirm, but porn should serve as a reminder that not only is female orgasm perfectly normal, it is, in fact, your prerogative! Make it happen! 

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